Unlock the CEO beneath your limiting conditioning, and grow the 6+ figure business that’s been in your heart all along.

The business you want begins (or ends) with the voice in your head, the beliefs you hold, and the stories you tell yourself.

The business you want begins (or ends) with the voice in your head, the beliefs you hold, and the stories you tell yourself.

Let's shift yours to build the 6+ figure biz you were born to run, like a natural.

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You’ve gotten this far…

But is the energy you’re pouring into your business actually paying off?

If you’ve worked your patoots off for a biz that’s treading water, and scaling it to a level that supports the life you want feels like running on the beach in clogs, I’m sure you need to hear this:

You absolutely CAN grow your business + income to the level you envision. But (I’ll bet both my eyebrows on this one) not with your limiting conditioning and the bummer mindset it sets you up with running the show.

CONDITIONING?

Uh-huh,Conditioning.

The kind you didn’t choose but learned early on—patterns designed to keep you safe as a kid that now limit you in ways you don’t even realise. It goes like this:

  • Your genuine needs weren’t validated when you were little. Now you don’t trust in support so you do everything yourself, micromanage whatever you (try to) delegate and haemorrhage money on hires you end up having to babysit.

  • You learned to bite your tongue to keep the peace. Now setting a boundary or stating a preference feels like walking on LEGOS barefoot — so you lose all your flavour and full time sugarcoat, people-please, over-explain and overcompensate in your marketing, your team, and with clients. YIKES!

  • You learned confidence would get you brought down a peg (or 100). Now self-promotion feels on par with painting bullseyes on your boobs and doing jumping jacks up and down 1st Ave—which keeps you from forward facing marketing that would naturally boost sales (or making you suck at it cause you’re hating it the whole time).

This kind of conditioning runs DEEP. It lives in your body, shapes your mindset, and creates invisible barriers to making great money doing what you love, and building the business and life you want for yourself.

And you’re far from alone in this.

Lots of women know what to do. They’ve got a valuable product, have put in the time, followed coaches’ advice, trained, strategised, and done everything they’ve been told should work to get their businesses to grow (I should know! I was one of them). And NOTHING. Newsflash: No amount of knowhow, assets, willingness, or talent stand a chance if the ways you learned to self limit keep calling the shots.

If this is hitting home, this is the work you HAVE TO DO before you throw another penny at your business.

You won’t be the same woman on the other side of it , and you won’t find a partner as tuned into your patterns, resourced in helping you break them, or invested in your vision for your business, income, and life than Yours Truly (you’re welome — no, really). I’m your person and I’m here to help you break stuff, so you can finally build what you want.

Hey! I’m Melanie.

With a lifetime of de-conditioning mindset work under my belt and 7 years coaching women into a felt sense of safety in their lives, bodies, and businesses, I know interrupting your own limiting patterns is the key to creating big success.

Years of doing this work tells me that what’s keeping YOU from the thriving business and big income you want isn’t strategy, talent, or an incredible product/service.

It’s outdated patterns you learned as a child that keep you stuck under the pretence of keeping you safe.

I’m here to help you spot exactly how those patterns hold your business back, so growing the business that’s in your heart feels natural, sustainable, and (dare I say it) delightful.

Ready to make THIS the turning point?

  • "Working with Mel has been waking up, she always brings me back to what is, and it’s astonishing to me to realise how much of what held me back was an unconscious choice and how I was always looking for what wasn’t here to save me. I can’t imagine not having done this. It’s scary how close I came to staying where I was. This has been the most important investment I’ve ever made."

    Norah Z

  • "How could I not have seen this?! Is what I keep feeling. I’m excited for what living in this way will bring me. Thank you, Melanie."

    Viv L

  • "Not for the faint of heart. That’s the first thing to say about this work. If you’re not willing to look at your own stuff and poke holes in your stories of why things haven’t worked out the way you wanted them to, then save your money."

    Sharon L

  • "You know what I found? This work makes it really easy to see where I’m adding to what I think the problem is and to see an alternative that’s present and honors what’s really true for me right then and there. When I let it be that easy (I’m still learning) my experience of it changes, but that has completely changed how my situation plays out and my relationships with everyone. I’ve felt a massive unburdening in the past few months, and I’ve also released so much of the absurd need to control other people’s experiences so I wouldn’t be uncomfortable. "

    Andy G

  • "Melanie is so intuitive and tuned in to her inner wisdom that everything we worked on resonated deeply with my needs. She has been a deep inspiration and a source of support and love in and outside her sessions. I have for her a deep sense of admiration and gratitude, and strongly recommend working with her to those that wish to go beyond what they consider possible."

    Sasha C

  • "I can’t find a better word to describe my experience working with Melanie than Extraordinary. There’s something beyond the linear understanding and unfolding of every session, a depth that can only be measured against the depth you’ve gone to within yourself before."

    Julie S

  • "Every session with her was a break through for me. She has a natural talent for holding her clients with gentleness, ease and exquisite nurturing care that I have never experienced with anyone else. I can’t recommend her enough as your guide on your journey. Melanie is Magic!"

    Iryna S

  • Sometimes being face-to-face with the opportunity to love myself THAT much is super challenging, but Melanie’s unflinching presence and care-FULL guidance coupled with a space that is imbued by her charisma and gentle power makes me see, remind, and believe in what I’m doing all the way through. It’s evident that Melanie has done a ton of her own soul work, and has been flying a powerful journey herself, to be able to be the coach she is today. I’m so grateful to have someone in my life that is such a cheerleader and fire for my dreams, my body, my love, and my life. Melanie is my breath of fresh air. All this, and I feel like my words can only express a fraction of how impressed and grateful I am about this woman.

    Carol B

  • "Melanie is an absolute pleasure to interact with. Spending time with her I have felt both safely held in her warm compassion and gently challenged to rise up into my highest self. She combines her creativity, intelligence and warmth in a special configuration of compassionate truth. I would highly recommend taking the opportunity to meet and work with her."

    Adriene C