
The Blueprint
Each of us has a unique conditioning blueprint.
Yours is the key to reclaiming your Original, pre-trauma Essence, dismantling what holds you back, and fulfilling your Core Desires in the areas of life that feel the most vital to your success, authenticity, and true purpose.
A CUSTOM CONDITIONING
PROFILE & READING
WHAT IF YOU COULD SEE YOUR UNCONSCIOUS PATTERNS, UNDERSTAND YOUR HIDDEN MOTIVATIONS, AND HAVE A CUSTOMISED FORMULA TO RELEASE THE WAYS + REASONS YOU SELF-LIMIT?
The Blueprint’s an in-depth customised profile and reading that identifies the structure of the conditioning you picked up in your formative years, shows you the patterns it manifests as, and gives you the clarity, perspective, and leverage to finally shed what holds you back, and access what you want and know is meant for you.

How it works:
Step 1: Free Consultation
Book a zero-pressure 30-minute call to ask questions, get clear on what The Blueprint includes, and decide if this is right for you.
Step 2: Workbook Assignment
If it’s a yes, you’ll receive a deep-dive workbook designed to surface the key relational, behavioural, and belief patterns that shape how you move through life. You’ll have a full week to complete it and turn it in.
Step 3: Your Blueprint Arrives
You’ll receive your Blueprint as a beautifully formatted PDF via email.
Step 4: Your Reading Takes Place
We’ll meet for 90 minutes over Zoom to expand on, and understand your Blueprint and how to translate it into concrete awareness and key behavioural + mindset shifts to get you exactly where you want to be. This session will be recorded and sent to you, along with a post call protocol to refer to.
Blueprint is a brand new offering and is launching at an introductory rate of $1699 $699 for a limited time
I’m Melanie Wilder, and this is the blueprint I would have given anything to get my hands on twenty years ago.
It wouldn’t have kept me from having to do the deep inner work. But it would have helped me move into alignment with myself, release what kept me stuck + reflected low self-worth, and build the life and business I wanted a whole lot sooner.
My own conditioning led me to create circumstances that looked nothing like what I wanted for myself.
Even though I was doing the best I could, my life looked a lot like an extension of the worst parts of my childhood. I repeated patterns of scarcity, codependency, overcompensation, addiction, and self-sabotage, and couldn’t understand why that was, or what more I could do to shift it.
I remember turning to whatever I could get my hands on—spirituality, meditation, therapy, horoscopes, numerology—to help me make sense of why my life felt like a rerun of the past, even though I’d done everything in my power to change. And while many of those modalities were fascinating, they felt palliative or fantastical at best. Nothing led to the real, practical, sustainable shifts I was after. Until I committed to unwinding the conditioning my primary relational environment had set me up with.
I created this system for de-conditioning and self-actualisation out of necessity. I knew there was a version on me I had to tap into, and a version of life— free, true, abundant, expansive, expressed and integral— I was meant to live. It’s taken well over twenty years to develop, test, and refine this portal to unconditioned living, and it’s completely transformed my life. I could not be more excited for this brand new way of offering it to you— it truly feels like a full circle moment for me.

What to expect:
An incredibly rare level of self-knowledge and clarity about blindspots that are running your life, why they’re here, and exactly what you need to do to interrupt what blocks your fullfillmnent, revealed through The BODY Cure’s life mapping system.
The Blueprint consolidates the specific patterns, beliefs, motivations, and adaptations you’ve been subconsciously ruled by, shows you how they control your life, clarifies and legitimises your Core Desires, and gives you the clearest and soundest path towards fulfilling them in a way that’s natural, predictable, and authentic to you.
You’ll walk away with:
A profound and grounded understanding of how you’ve been functioning inside an identity shaped by early conditioning, complete with its own logic, fears, and limits.
Custom tools to release learned limitations and restore your sense of self-worth to full beam—from your core (without blowing smoke up your bum).
An actionable and holistic roadmap to catching your blindspots, knowing what to lean into and when, cultivating safety in what’s true for you, and creating what you want from your unconditioned core.
All of it laser focused on helping you tangibly fulfil a specific core desire in the foreseeable future.
The Blueprint is entirely based on you and your unique history, perspective, and experience.
It’s a powerful transformative tool on its own, and it deepens and unlocks other modalities and resources, ranging from therapy to Human Design.
In therapy, we often speak from complete identification with the patterns we need to shift in order to create change. That can slow things down or keep us spinning in circles indefinitely. The Blueprint helps you see, name, and individuate from those patterns—so you can use your sessions to fortify what’s underneath them and create meaningful change.
In Human Design, it supports the de-conditioning process that keeps you from fully living your design, helps you see why certain aspects have been hard to access, and shows you what’s needed to soften the protective strategies blocking the way—so your design becomes something you can actually inhabit and use to build a life that feels fulfilling, on-purpose, and aligned with who you authentically are.
In other modalities, approaching them from your unconditioned essence allows you to access and apply their power to your life. Rather than just being exciting oracles of what life might be like “if only…”what The Blueprint makes available to you translates these modalities into tools you can actually use, live from, and reap the benefits of.

The Blueprint maps how your Original Essence has been impacted by a lifetime of conditioning, driven by desires that are calling you home, and the invisible tensions that hold it all in place. It’s a profound path of personal reclamation that provides you with the self-knowledge to chart a life entirely your own.
Before you book:
Your Blueprint profile builds around your core desires. It’s essential that you come with ONE specific focus in mind so we can orient to and easily track tangible results. You can always come back for more once you see how uncannily well this process works.
The Blueprint exists as a standalone tool for profound transformation and is also an excellent compliment to other modalities like Human Design and traditional therapy. This process will help you catch the ways you’ve cut yourself off from your nature in order to preserve approval, safety, and belonging, and help you unlock other modalities with no obstacles in the way.
The Blueprint isn’t for everyone. It’s a tool that requires a high level of comfort with and willingness to do deep inner work, and it presents a lot of delicate information in one go.
If you're currently navigating acute PTSD, or cPTSD, a highly unstable situation, or significant mental health challenges—including Cluster B diagnoses, this probably isn’t the best fit as it can surface confronting material that requires a resourced baseline to sort through, lacks continued support, and isn’t a substitute for therapy.